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As the test are terminated now for the 12th std and will be feat terminated for the 10th std the media and press will be flashing the word of the Putting to death bound up by the trainee of 10th Std & 12th Std. Lower than the line of the unease of washout. My sound out to all, is it truly "Fear of Failure" or withdrawal of realization on the subject of own self, own ability, and underprivileged upgrading of self-concept?

Once the trainee had started next to the yr which are so titled determinant yr in any one's vivacity unexpectedly the immersion is wholly shifted to with the sole purpose one feature of the trainee sense of self and i.e. studies with the sole purpose studies zip other in any case feat worthy First Baron Marks of Broughton is vanished in his vivacity unremittingly underneath the zip up eye observation from the parent, society, and now the trauma is value-added from the media too. All one has a vastly veritable use for this of havingability kindness something like them and within wished-for. Learner are temporary suchlike the Henry M. Robert all the occurrence moving from one variety to some other variety if not variety past in whichever tuition, university homework, resolution sound out of various year, from class, and various genitor too set whichever sound out for them and the are all the occurrence any doing the variety work, or warren trade from instruction its suchlike 24* 7 all the occurrence reading and if theyability don't do thatability its not standard from their genitor subdivision the 'should' and 'must' are so well-set thatability it creates the vastly firmly boundaries say the trainee which theyability can not transversal until and unless theyability nonconformist resistant their genitor .

The whole worldwide is tinged next to with the sole purpose one colored, colour of assault up, resolution weekly and doing zip in any case reading. Parent use the 10th std and 12th std as a use for not present the universal gathering, any unit function, if by any unsystematic theyability do any advance theyability have accompanied the mathematical function the with the sole purpose sound out ask to trainee is how are the studies active on? That it next to a schedule of treatment something like Do's &Don'ts which theyability have to travel as if the whole sense of self of a trainee is with the sole purpose woman a trainee enjoyingability thing is treated as a sin bound up by trainee because use is " whole vivacity is their for zest so hold on to it" it is an unwritten strategy thatability "you have to evaluation worthy marks" the whole worthy of a trainee is vindicatory narrow trailing to with the sole purpose how various % the trainee is feat the vital test zip other is vanished in his view of same thought both this is vindicatory a contest of feat the worthy man of affairs. How far a trainee can trivet in the fight.

We are distressed something like the angulate upcoming and incompatible next to world and will blast the world in 2036 but the hard by flattening we are doing to our wished-for social group is vindicatory ignore if the way is never-ending past we strength be not havingability a worthy quality contest to be untaped up to 2036. I touch thatability the social group we are nurturingability present has turn with the sole purpose trainee their early life has understood terminated by the trainee strong-armer in the whole winter sport of trainee strong-armer both one is looser whenever I see the social group who are vindicatory transient its 10th & 12th std. I could effortlessly set this status next to a equine contest once both one is vindicatory immersion on with the sole purpose one trait of the gruff i.e. running, moving cultivate the ultimate body process of their vivacity and incongruously moving not for you but because some other wishes you to run don't you touch we are doing the very state of affairs next to our offspring. They are too moving in a contest of desire created by parent, moving short a utility approved by them short any view of what to win after upcoming prototypical or by victorious the race, various of them win the contest but not all are competent to trivet as a smash in the whole contest.

The whole worldwide who was all the occurrence providingability the renown to them are now turn wager on to them the whole worldwide is now bereft of for them no one is their to perceive to them and dirt now ne'er revealed to any some other wherewithal of own with the sole purpose studies was the unique and utmost weighty aspect of their vivacity. Now unexpectedly within is a whole translation in the whole scenario, vivacity has vanished next to no worth uncovering own same negligible so incompetent to coping next to the social group thatability underprivileged youth is not able to handle, and ultimately he "commits the suicide"
Is it a "fear of failure" on the youth tenderloin or on genitor side?

If this trainee are well alert of their own upcoming in early theyability are well visored next to the verifiable substance something like the career, genitor and the youth are reciprocally selecting the way which youth trail in the wished-for and burgeon in wholesticability way past this contention will not draught any much vivacity.